X-WebTV-Signature: 1 ETAuAhUAmIJk6Riaal6dWzVS7rbPSXAg8acCFQCukJqwi7ah/DRTQxUeJMeTOzE7Aw== From: tommyboy508@webtv.net (Tom Padgett) Date: Fri, 4 Jun 2004 01:12:07 -0500 To: beauandcharity@hotmail.com Subject: Convenience & family Message-ID: <5900-40C012B7-573@storefull-3335.bay.webtv.net> Content-Disposition: Inline Content-Type: Text/Plain; Charset=US-ASCII Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7Bit MIME-Version: 1.0 (WebTV) Dear Son. This is a very difficult letter to write, but I feel it's so impoatant to communicate one's true feelings....especially with loves ones. I am hoping you will take this to you Christian minister at your Grace Church to have him help you sort through this as a counselor. We have not seen each other since early-mid March. It's June now. The last time we talked, which was about 2 weeks ago, you said it was too inconvenient for you to come and see me, your dad. My heart sunk down into my feet! :( First Beau, go to your Bible and open up to Exodus 20:12 You will note, God says "to honour thy father and thy mother." What God doesn't say is.... 1. To only honor one parent 2. To only honor family members in Hopkins, Co. KY 3. To honor L. Ron Hubbard 4. To honor Charles W. Boteler, Jr. 5. To honor the Vannoys and not the Padgetts 6. To honor thy nieghbor David Massamore 7. To honor convenience over incovenience and hardships God is silent on all of these. I realize you are married now and a dad yourself, with a precious new son. It was my hopes to share this with you in all the normal joys of being a grandparent. But apparently this is winding up the same as my exhausing attempts to be your dad since August of 1992. I want you to read the the attached excerpt from CHILD DIANETICS - Processing (page 59) whereby Hubbard directs..."Grandparents shall not be permitted into the homes of thier grandchildren until they have learned to behave themselves Dianetically." Hope hope this rings a bell with you, or at lest stumulates a yearning to delve into what this exactly means. To me it's crucial in getting through this all. Here's some good news on the "DAD RELATIONSHIP" front for you. Last week I was nominated, and was elected, to the Board of Directors of F.A.T.H.E.R.S. -- see www.KyFathers.org for details. Imagine me your old New England pop, a dang yankee, an opinion leader in Kentucky. Unimaginable huh? :) Now back to your considerations on convenience & inconvenience. We vertually didn't have a regular / normal child -parent relationship since summer 1992 in spite of my relentless fight to combat this unecessary intrusion into our family unit. It was inconvenient for me to come to Mad'ville in August 2000' to see you and wind up in jail and eventually being sent to prison for 5 years for crimes I did not commit. It was inconvenient to go to the Providence, R.I. Airport in August of 2002' to pick you up for scheduled visitation, and being swarmed by local, state, and federal law enforcement with loaded guns, because of the devoius poitical asperations of your neighbor David Massamore.....and being detained for 33 days in a small concrete cell, extracted illegally by Hopkins Co. personnel and hijacked to Ky, and held for another 20 days. It was inconvient for me to move here a year ago recognizing that if we were to have any resemblence of a normal father/son relationship it wasn't going to happen from afar or Massachusetts. But I did so out of love, you may begin to understand this NOW as a poppa yourself. It was inconvenient for your cousins Lynn and Peter to bring your Grandfather's Mercedes Benz back to Mass. from N.H. in the winter of 2001' for you to have, to own, and to drive as an hierloom. There it sits rotting to this day. Last April, I bought you a car, the Capri, so it wouldn't be inconvenient for you to get here to see me once a week (only an hour and 10 min. drive away,) rather than hitchhiking or begging for rides from others. Worst of all, it was VERY INCONVENIENT for me to assure that both you and your sister Julie were not raised as Scientologists, but rather as Christians, and to have two (2) parents in your lives as a healthier option, and in doing so, being declared an SP enemy and thusly being subject to Fair Game, a Hubbard scripture, not God's. See www.FairGamed.org for a complete comprehension. I can not express this inconvenience in terms of hurt, emotions, financial loss, career demise, and extented family compromise falling 95% on your paternal side and favoring your maternal side. The devastaton there is incalculable in terms of measurement. You now have Charity and Joshua to hold, to protect, to support, and to love with all the means and devotion your heart and soul can muster. They all have the PADGETT name now. A proud and good name. I can not, nor will not, belittle or besmearch your Vannoy name in the background on your other side. However, PLEASE understand my beliefs and exceptions. God's commands in Exodus 20: 3 are "Thou shalt have no other gods before me." Those are "OUR" beliefs son. Now take this and toss them into a paper bag with your Mom's beliefs of Ron Hubbard being her higher power, which rejects traditional mental health practices such as psychology and Chistian clergy counselling, and mandates communication severences in their inflexable "DISCONNECTION" doctrine. Shake this paper bag vigoruosly, then spill it al out on the table as though it was a very complicated 8794 piece jigsaw puzzle to repeice together. Regretfully, that mess is what we have before us now. WE will need professional help at this juncture. I love you son, and with all my heart. I want to be a part of your life which includes your wife and son. I pray for you often to seek out a desire to know your Padgett kin back east. I know you've opened your heart to Jesus, of which I agree and respect 100%, but as your loving father I will continue to ask for your equal respect of me knowing "we" as a family were involved in a "mind controlling cult" in an artical as recent as April 5, 2004 in People Magazine, and need to move through this to the end. Huge hugs Beau, Dad P.S. Where's the developed pictures from the camera I gave you in early March so I can share with your "Padgett" family? They want to see them. I have nothing to produce.